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About PeopleActiv

PeopleActiv is owned and managed by Frances and Stephen Light. We genuinely love and care about people and focus on helping them see their Light. We live courageously with the guiding principle of: "How may I serve." We strive to live this in every interaction we have. Our guiding philosophy is, “All meaningful and lasting change starts first on the inside and works its way out” – Anon. We recognise that the path to greatness and a great life is an internal journey, one we have taken and one we are continuously on.

We are passionate about living our purpose which is to serve others by assisting them to find their reason for being. We assist people in leading fulfilling lives through finding balance in their lives, realising their potential and finding their greatness, their most fulfilling life. In doing so we are also able to fulfill our potential. We believe that all people are beautiful souls with infinite potential and that it is our limiting learned behaviours which do not serve us in living the life we dream of.

People have to be responsible for their lives in order to choose differently and make changes. We have been conditioned to blaming others and the world around us for the circumstances of our lives and to take responsibility for our behaviours is a foreign concept, especially when others are behaving poorly. It truly is easier to blame them for our feelings and reactions. PeopleActiv teaches people to understand what is going on inside of them when confronted with these situations and to make different choices versus reactive responses. When people understand and embrace change at this level, their journey to greatness has begun. They start finding themselves being more confident about who they are and what they bring to the relationship. Their relationship with themselves improves and so they are able to give a lot more to others.

One of the main challenges we hear people struggle with in the business world is dealing with other people. Businesses have objectives to meet and deliverables to achieve. Companies and Institutions’ want results, we acknowledge this. We also acknowledge that business is done between people and the best kind of business is done when people have healthy relationships. The truth is: I cannot fully give to relationships if I do not feel good about myself. Businesses succeed because of people so relationships (internal and external) become crucial. If people cannot get along with each other or cannot communicate effectively with each other, the end result is that the business suffers. PeopleActiv uses this as a basis for behavioural change. If you want results, care about yourself and your people. Teach your people to care about themselves and they will start caring about others. The business results will come. It is therefore hugely important that people are able to communicate and deal with themselves and each other in an effective manner.

PeopleActiv workshops focus on an Inside/out approach. We help people understand who they are when they interact with people and how they could improve their approach in order to create fulfilling and meaningful interactions for both parties. We recognise that in order for people to show up in relationships with the intent of growth, caring and support (win-win), they need to understand themselves better. This is the internal journey to greatness. PeopleActiv provides a safe environment for people to dream where they could be, to acknowledge where they are and we assist them in identifying and changing those behaviours that prevent them from realising their greatness. Our workshops impart the necessary skills for building great relationships through being confident, being assertive, communicating effectively, managing emotions and dealing with conflict for growth. We teach people how to manage themselves and others on a deeper level, the level at which relationships live. These skills are shared in the context of an internal shift from blame to Choice and Responsibility.

Our facilitation methodology is interactive and experiential. We remove all barriers to learning and create trusting environments for sharing. We know people learn and retain information best when it has personal meaning to them. This is the key to sustained behavioural change. Our workshops are true facilitation and our approach is asking the right questions - people have the answers to their destiny through Self-Awareness, Choices and Responsibility.

Our workshops include:

1. Empowering people through a coaching leadership mindset
 
2. Communicating with Intent, One conversation at a time
 
3. Being Assertive and Managing Conflict for building better relationships
 
4. Being Emotionally Intelligent – The heart of great relationships
 
5. Busting the Myth that Stress is Real

Coaching for creating sustained behavioural change

PeopleActiv have certified Professional Co-Active coaches who are registered and accredited with the Coaches Training Institute based in Los Angeles. This is a global organisation that creates and supports a network of co-active coaches operating in the space of change through self awareness. We connect with people and connect them to their true self. When in this space the power to create change in their lives comes from the biggest part of who they are. Co-Active coaching holds people naturally creative, resourceful and whole and allows them to explore and tap into their true potential. Coaching is the space that takes the workshop concepts and makes them real and practical in people’s lives, it is the vehicle for creating sustainable behavioural change, if people are willing to change.

All meaningful and lasting change starts first on the inside and works its way out
 



Company Details
Durban
Postal: PO Box 1433, Umhlanga Rocks 4320
Tel: +27 (0)31 563 8426
Fax: 0866 089 329
Stephen Light: stephen@peopleactiv.com
0825649024
Frances Light: frances@peopleactiv.com
0825649011
Web: www.peopleactiv.com
 

Meet Stephen Light

I am a very passionate, compassionate and loving person. I love life and although initially a little shy, I love meeting new people. I always wonder who they are and what they have been through. What challenges have they faced in their lives and why have they shown up in my life right here and right now. I treat my experiences as a series of lessons and approach life with an attitude of gratitude and humility. I genuinely care for people and my natural curiosity has led me to where I am now. I know I am here to serve people and my Life purpose is: I am the vulnerable child who creates the space for truth. I serve the purpose of connecting, sharing and growing people. So I am right where I need to be.

I have been coaching for 5 years and it was a natural progression for me from the workshops I manage. Coaching came as a result of seeing how much people wanted change in their lives and yet found themselves consumed and controlled by the circumstances of their lives. I quickly realised I had the skill and desire to hold a space for my clients that allowed them to fully express who they are, to make this real for them and then hold them accountable for approaching life from this space. When in this space, everything is possible.

I coach personal and corporate clients. I coach through a variety of mediums, namely face to face, skype and telephonically. I believe in people and I believe in their potential. I know we develop blocks (conditioning) to seeing our potential and I love assisting people to realise this and to let their diamond inside shine.

What I love about myself
My big heart
My serving attitude
My humility
My courage
My commitment to growing myself
My family love
My kindness

Personal profile
I am a family man and have a beautiful wife, Frances who means the world to me. She teaches me lessons every day. We have twin girls, Madison and Caitlin (now 8 years old) who are my life. They are so different and I could never have said that my heart could hold so much love for them. I fall in love with them every day and they keep me on my toes.

We have 2 African Grey Parrots (Scribble and Zack), 1 Bronze Manikin (Cassie), 1 finch (Nathan), 1 sausage dog (Star), 1 Jack Russell (Jamie), 1 cat (Itchy my other love), 2 hamsters (whose names have changed so many times I am not sure who they are currently) and many fish (no names). So we have a full house.

I am very sporty and run 5 times a week. I have completed 12 comrades marathons (90km race), 9 Two Oceans marathons (56km race), and over 50 other marathons in my running career. I also manage a group of about 600 runners and walkers all on an informal basis called Regent Harriers. We meet nearly every day in the week to run and it is a wonderful running community. I am also a Rugby referee for my province.

One of my biggest successes is that my daughters are growing up so aware of who they are, the choices they have and the life they can create for themselves (something I never had). I am so proud of them.

 

Meet Frances Light

My Life Purpose is: I am the love and light that reconnects people to their magnificence.

I am a loving and caring person. I love connecting with people and I am passionate about helping people grow. Living my purpose means I assist people in gaining self insight and growth by providing support and guidance through coaching. I genuinely care about people and this is evident in how I live my life. I love my family and it is this love that I share with them that enables me to freely and unconditionally give it away to others. I live the principles of a spiritual life and I know my facilitation and coaching is testimony to a personal journey of hope, love and peace.

Coaching and facilitating has been an integral part of my job role from 1990 to 1999 and when I started my own business in 1999, facilitation became my passion. Then, over the past two years I connected with coaching in a way that I never thought possible. As a result coaching and facilitation have become a vital part of my life’s work. I feel fully expressed and alive when I am facilitating and coaching. I am very blessed to have both corporate and individual clients. I feel that my roles as a women, wife, mother, and business women provide me with a wealth of experiences to draw off and allow me to truly be there in the moment with my clients.

Initially my journey was a traditional one, following the corporate road. After having a successful career in the corporate world where I had built up a wealth of knowledge and experience, I decided in 1999 to start my own business so that I could focus solely on my passions.

My business grew and in 2001, together with my husband Stephen, we formed a Company called PeopleActiv to pursue our Life’s Purpose even further. My philosophy is that all meaningful and sustainable change has to start on the inside and work its way out and this is how we run our business and our lives.

Our workshops focus on the power people have over their lives through choice, self awareness, responsibility and accountability. I assist people in challenging limiting beliefs and habits that don’t serve them and impart tools for changing behaviour and making it sustainable through alignment to values, purpose and inspiration in life. This is achieved by holding them naturally creative, resourceful and whole.

My influences and teachers include: my husband, Stephen, my twin daughters Madison and Caitlin, Sonia Choquette, Cheryl Richardson, Wayne Dyer, Byron Katie, Deepak Chopra, Louise Hay, John Maxwell, Ken Blanchard, Jim Collins, Ben and Ros Zander; and the like.

5 things to know about me:

1. I’m happily married and the mother of amazing twin girls
 
2. I am passionate about my husband and girls and keep a balanced lifestyle to spend time with them
 
3. I have a large family whom I love dearly: mom, dad, 3 sisters, 3 brothers, brothers and sisters in law, 13 nieces and nephews and one grand niece
 
4. I love traveling; I enjoy connecting with new places and people and sharing this experience with my family
 
5. I am passionate about reading
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